Lost: I cried for two and a half hours

May 24th, 2010 | by | lost, series finale

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Before I get into the meat of the matter, I have to ask this of the folks out there who didn’t like the finale of Lost last night:

You didn’t like the Battlestar Galactica ending either, did you?

I ask that not to accuse you of just not liking finales to shows you’ve loved. I ask that because in both cases, I believe the ending was absolutely the culmination of everything that came before.

The endings MADE SENSE. Yes, you can nitpick and complain about little things here or there that didn’t make sense. When you’ve unraveled as much string as both of these shows did, it’s hard to get it all back into a neat little ball of yarn.

Not all questions were answered, and in some cases that was infuriating (from both shows).

But, in the end, the show was what it was always about: The people. Love. Fate. Free will. The afterlife.

The only way to tackle last night’s action-packed ending is by bullet points. I’m emotionally exhausted and I still have two hours of 24 to watch tonight, and that promises to be as equally emotionally wrenching.

The afterlife

Let’s get one thing straight: The island wasn’t purgatory. Not for our Losties, at least. Sure, there are some people who are stuck there forever, running around whispering stuff, like Michael. But our Losties’ Purgatory or waiting room or whatever you wanna call it was the alternate universe. The flash-sideways.

The island was real. The Losties were absolutely alive.

The flash-sideways was a place where these people who had become a family could come together and finally find peace. And once they finally all came together, it was time to go into the light.

OK, that moment was totally hokey. But did you notice the statues of Vishnu and the Buddha in the rectory? Did you notice the stained glass window that had symbols from Judaism, Islam, Jainism, every religion, practically?

This wasn’t about a Judeo-Christian afterlife. This was a recognition that every religious or spiritual practice in the world has some sort of belief system about what happens after life on this world is over. If you were Buddhist, you could believe that the island and their tests there were their final tests before enlightenment. Or maybe the flash sideways was, and now they don’t have to be reborn again.

Love

Omg, when Juliet and Sawyer met again and recognized one another and kissed, I was bawling like a baby. (KNEW that the baby doctor was gonna be Juliet and that she was going to be Jack’s ex-wife.) And Jin & Sun, too. Like. A. Baby.

This show has always been about love and loss. From Day One.

And you know what? Team Darlton made us love these characters. Even the ones who annoyed you, you had moments of loving. Don’t deny it. Denial is ugly.

Jack/Jacob/Hurley/Ben

It made so much sense to have Hurley be the new Jacob. He was always the one who took care of people, made them feel better.

Jack’s job was always to fix things. In the end, he fixed the island. He sent Desmond down there to break it – but that was only, really, so he could kill Flocke. Flocke couldn’t be killed until the island was broken. When Des pulled the cork out of the island, Jack and Flocke became mortal.

By the way, how freakin’ awesome was that flying punch-down that Jack did to Flocke on the cliff? Cut to commercial. WOW.

So, anyway, Flocke could be killed. He couldn’t leave the island and bring his evil with him. He couldn’t end life, the universe and everything by leaving.

That was Jack’s job. He was always the fixer. Only when he gave up the idea of having to fix everything was he actually able to fix the thing he’d been working toward his entire life.

Once that was done, he wasn’t the person to keep the island safe. It made so much sense for it to be Hurley. The second Hurley went back with Jack to save Des and the Island, it became exceedingly obvious that was what was going to happen.

And bravo to Ben, in the end, doing what was right. Even telling Hurley that he could send Des back to Penny and his son, Charlie. Indeed, if Hurley was the new Jacob, couldn’t he make his own rules? Why couldn’t people leave the island?

Fine job, Ben. I liked that they invited Ben inside the church to come with them, but that Ben chose more time in purgatory, to atone for what he’d done, to make things right with Alex and Danielle. He’d redeemed himself and was “eligible” to move on, but he chose not to. Which redeemed him even more.

Desmond/Penny

Thank you.

De plane! De plane!

Who else let out a yelp and applauded when Miles and Richard found Lapidus bobbing in the ocean! That. Was. So. Awesome. I don’t know, I had a feeling he was still alive.

And Richard was still alive, too – was it his brush with death with Smokey what made him mortal again, or was it the cork being pulled out of the island? Probably the latter.

So Lost to have him find a reason to live again, once he knew he could die.

Duct tape fixes everything.

When Kate, Sawyer and Claire come upon the Ajira plane just about to taxi and Frank gets ‘em on, total sigh of relief, but also an intake of breath. Would they still escape the island? Nothing was ever certain on Lost, and they’d killed almost everyone else by this point, so it could have happened.

Questions:

Why wasn’t Miles in the church? And Richard, too? What about Frank?

Dharma initiative? Um, totally confused about that. How did they ever get to the island? Obviously, they were trying to find Elvar Hanso’s ship and did, but how did they even find it? Did Jacob allow them to come? Or did the MiB allow them to come, knowing the destruction they’d reign down on the Others.

WTF were the Others? Just people gathered by Jacob over the years to protect the island? Were they candidates? Were some candidates?

Why couldn’t babies be born on the island? Was it the nuclear bomb? I assume that, but it was never made clear.

Why did the Others have that superhuman strength? Did the exposure to the radiation make them all Hulk-like, except not green and huge?

What was Widmore’s backstory? We never really got that. We never learned how he got to the island, why he was there (Eloise, too). And who was Penny’s mother? How did that all transpire that he met some woman off-island whom he loved and had a child with? And how did Eloise and Faraday end up off-island? Did she leave when she found out she was pregnant so her child would live? (They hadn’t had Faraday yet when Widmore was forced to leave, right?)

Who in the hell was Matthew Abbadon? I know he worked for Widmore, but wtf? Ilana, too.

I’m sure I’ll come up with more questions and more thoughts.

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But I do want to say this:

Thank you to the entire cast and crew of Lost – you provided excellent entertainment and diversion for six years. The acting, the writing, the music, the editing, the cinematography – it was all better than we’ve seen on television in, maybe, ever. OK, a close tie with The Wire and Battlestar Galactica, but in a totally different way.

Thanks for being my Constant.

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  1. erika says:

    An unbelievable cryfest took place at my apartment, and I come out of it today thrilled with the ending. I liked it waaaay more than the BSG finale.

    Juliet totally surprized me. I guess I wasn’t thinking, just experiencing, but I loved that she was Jack’s ex and LOVED when her and Sawyer found each other at the vending machine. Perfect. Hooray for Lapidus! for Richard! for Rose & Bernard & Vincent! Hooray for Jack being all kinds of kick-ass and then getting to see his friends fly away right before he dies… oh man, I’m gonna start crying again! :)

    Honestly, I could write a book on how I felt about the ending, and in turn the whole series. Darlton did and outstanding job. I am gonna miss LOST more than I can know right now, and thanks Amy, for your thoughtful posts. You have helped me straighten this show out sometimes when the LOST boards were just a mass of crazy.

    Now it’s time to man-up for the 24 finale. :(

  2. mark m says:

    I loved this final episode, the BSG one was horrible…what the heck was Starbuck, and the angels? Blah. Bad.
    That being said, this finale blew the roof off. I agree there are a whole lot of questions, about the others and their lives….but i think a lot of things were answered as well.
    Here is my theory about the palette drop, the strange conections, the black horse, all the manifistations of people and things etc…..All of this came to me, when Desmond said he was able to see the afterlife (Jack has a son!).
    The afterlife (sideways universe) was a construct of the castaways minds…what they thought their lives were or shold be. Jack being a dad, Sawyer a good person, Kate on the run while being innocent, Sun and Jin unable to escape Mr. Paik, Locke loving his dad. The whole universe was a manifestation of their thoughts and fears.
    What was a constant in the real world AND the afterlife? The light.
    The light on the island had the same affect (although not making a whole universe)…in strange and wonderful ways it would manifest itself. Locke walking, dead people appearing, the darhma food palette drop.
    It can be used to explain almost anything and everything that happened on the show in the last 6 years. The re occuring line of “this is not the way this is supposed to happen (or happen)” is because someone saw it happening one way, and someone else at odds changing it.

  3. Christine says:

    Now I’m crying again. “Thanks for being my constant” – you really know how to get to the heart of it.
    Speaking of heart, it completely made sense that Hurley would be the one – and the redemption of Ben, when Hurley said that he’d been a great number two. Crazy good. And knowing he was off to make it right with Alex and Danielle – just perfect.

    I don’t know how I didn’t realize that Juliette had to be Jack’s ex. Duh.

    And Kate – through the years I’ve loved and hated her – but I loved how she was handled. Guiding Charlie to Claire and Aaron so that he could remember too. (I can not believe how much I’m crying over this)

    Yes, absolutely I was left with questions, I truly never expected not to be – but I was very happy with the ending (well, if you can call an entire evening of sobbing, “happy”) and I’ve never been so grateful for a television show.

    Thanks to you Amy, for being the place I could come to process so many confusing, crazy episodes. Your thoughtful commentary was something I looked forward to after every episode.

    I think I’m ready to cancel cable now. =)

  4. Donna says:

    Amy – I was happy with the finale. Yes, not all my questions were answered and some things still don’t make sense to me.

    However, I honestly found the finale quite… spiritual. I too cried. Every time one of them got flooded with the memories of their time on the island my heart beat faster and I just bawled.

    Tuesday nights will not be the same.

  5. Erinn says:

    I’m sad now. There was something really heart-wrenching about the finale. I know the ending was supposed to be all “and they died happily ever after,” but I feel hollow. I guess I was prepared for the series to end. I just wasn’t prepared for all of them to be so . . . dead. I’m surprised to find myself saying this because I consider myself to be a spiritual person but . . . A CHURCH FILLED WITH A BUNCH OF DEAD LOSTIES IS CREEPY!!!!!

    “Do NOT go into the light, Carol Anne!!”

  6. Charlene says:

    Ughh reading this is making me a wheepy again. I loved it!

  7. Michael LaMorte says:

    Hi Amy,

    Great analysis as always!

    For me I was totally satisfied with the finale!

    For me this was a character driven show from the beginning and it gave closure to the character we liked/loved since it’s beginning.

    I really couldn’t figure out how in the flash sideways they were remembering their island experience. I finally put it together when Jack was talking to his Dad.

    The Island reality for most of the characters especially for Jack I think was a personal test for them. I think based on their action on the island, in the end they past their own personal test to reach nirvana at the end.

    To me I thought it was a happy ending for most of the Losties!

    I love the use of character lines from other episodes used in the finale-Kate to Jack-nothing is irreversible, Jack to Desmond-see you in another life brotha!

    I thought the plane wreckage during the final credits was the remains of the plane Kate and Sawyer were on at the end.

    I;m no sure why was Eloise so determined that Desmond not awaken the Lostie’s in the purgatory/flash sideways story line, but this was the nature of Lost, some things are never what they seem.

    I am glad Jack didn’t die alone, Vincent was with him. Love how it ended the way it began with Jack lying in the bamboo trees awakening and then dying.

    It was a great show and I will miss it!

    Talk to you soon,
    Michael

  8. Flyssy says:

    For me, the scene at the end with Jack and Christian was one of the most emotional pieces of TV I’ve ever seen. (“Christian Shepherd” – It’s obvious now isn’t it?)

    I will freely admit I cried like a baby too, particularly when Vincent came back to be with Jack in his dying moments. The beauty of Lost has always been the audiences emotional investment in the characters, so losing any of them was always a wrench, but to lose them all was genuinely heart breaking.

    This is why shows like Flash Forward can’t compete..I don’t actually care about any of them, therefore, I don’t care what happens to them, or how it ends.

    Great work as usual Amy..what will we do now? x

  9. Ken P. says:

    great analysis, as always, amy! i LOVED it. every moment. and i love the fact that so much was left to our imaginations. did we find out what the Island *really* was? no, but in the end, what does it matter? what matters is that the right thing was done, and that all these characters we’ve come to love found the peace they were seeking. personally, i kept my composure right up till the moment Ben apologized to Locke. and then blubbered in an utterly unmanly fashion:-)

    and now i just wonder. how long was Hurley the Island’s protector? what did Kate & Sawyer & Miles do with the rest of their lives? how did Walt & Ji Yeon grow up? we’ll never be sure, but that’s OK.

    and for the record: i hated the BSG finale because it was a big pile of Deus ex Machina. that’s just lazy. Cuse and Lindelof just showed how that shit be DONE, kid!

    and Duct Tape? it’s like the Force: it has a light side, and a dark side, and it binds the universe together. :-)

  10. Melissa says:

    I love the finale as well. I sat with my tissue box and bawled through it all. (Although he was sitting on the other end of the couch, I suspect my husband did too!)

    I know that eveyone would like to think that the island was real and that they were alive. I am not totally sold. I think it is like “ghost whisperer” they are stuck in that in between place because they have unfinished business and are not at peace. This also explains why Miles, Lapidus, Faraday, ect. were not in the church. They didn’t die on the plane. They were Shepards (love the Christian Shepard name) they came to the island to guide the the Losties to the “other side” to help them find peace along the way. There struggles on the island were all about life and death. “The island isn’t done with you.” I know this isn’t a perfect explanation and it doesn’t explain Desmond, but nothing is ever fully explained on the show. The writers left themselves a long leash.

    I hadn’t thought about the end wreckage being the Aljira flight, but that makes sense too. Beside how would they explain themselves to the air traffic control?!

    LOVED, Loved the ending with Jack and Vincent (totally forgot his name!) Loved it all, still wish there were more answers, but that’s LOST!

  11. AmyV says:

    @Erika – Knew you and I would see eye-to-eye on Lost. 24 didn’t make me cry.

    @Mark – I still disagree about the BSG finale, but I love your comments about the flash sideways being what they wanted life to be.

    @Christine – Hug. And thank _you._

    @Donna – I’m not a particularly spiritual person, as you know, but I love scifi that goes all spiritual, for some reason. Glad you liked it.

    @Erinn – yes, creepy, but cool. Love the Poltergeist reference. :-)

    @Charlene – lol.

    @Michael – I hadn’t really thought about the wreckage at the end being the Ajira plane (second time) until you said so earlier today. I’ll have to look again.

    @Marko – I’m so glad I wasn’t the only one to never really notice “Christian Shepherd.” And as for what will we do now? No freakin’ clue.

    @Ken – I stand by my appreciation of the BSG finale. :-) But, yes, Duct Tape rocks. :-)

    @Melissa – Yes, I loved the ending with Vincent, too. So perfect.

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  13. Dave says:

    Excellent write-up as always, Amy. I’m going to miss reading your thoughts on one of my favorite shows.

    I’m surprisingly happy with the finale. It’s a little frustrating that a lot of the questions were left unanswered, and the mythology got really, really silly toward the end, but I liked it.

  14. Synbios says:

    I don’t know if you’ve seen this, but it’s awesome:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wt4aO8bCYd4

    I loved BSG finale and Lost finale too :)

  15. Danielle says:

    I cried sooooooo much. Im crying now actually. its the best series ive ever watched and i just can’t belive its over.that part that Jack dies with the dog….oh my goodness i cnt stop crying

  16. Brad says:

    okay, im 16 and i watched this show from when it started until the end of the first season or so, then last night i decided to watch the last episode ever and i cried, i just dont understand how i could cry over it.i am a guy but the thin that ticked it all off was when the dog came and layed next to him

  17. AmyV says:

    @Dave – Thanks. :-) I’m still a bit veklempt.

    @Synbios – Epic!

    @Danielle – I’m so glad to hear from others who felt similarly to me. :-)

    @Brad – lol. Guys are allowed to cry. But yeah, when Vincent lay next to Jack, it was so touching and brought everything full circle. I just got chills thinking about it.

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